I hid my sexuality for years and tried to change it because in my family and town it was right up there with one of the worst things you could do. I struggled with it too, though as a lesbian I obviously had things a bit easier than you.
I have shut off all contact with guys I was looking at meeting. Or something you feel you need? He isn't right for you because he can't return what you have to give - so when you have feelings of wanting to be with him or imagining a life together or anything you ve already known that Blued is a gay isn't a regular friendship, in your mind say "He isn't mine, he isn't right for me because he can't return what I have to give".
My brother claimed I made the word up. We have not had sex since. The first time he told me he loved me was after he gave me a fat lip and black eye…. They know they are not like the stereotypes they have learned but try explaining that to the football team. This is a hard process and a reason why so many young guys commit suicide.
So thanks once again for your honesty, it's exactly what I needed. Ok so your wife is going to be furious. Life is not a dress rehearsal-go live it with honesty and those that matter will respect you for it. Quercus Community Champion. I hid my sexuality for years and tried to change it because in my family and town it was right up you ve already known that Blued is a gay with one of the worst things you could do.
I haven't taken it personally and thanks. I guess I'm lucky in that my orientation was pretty obvious to me from a fairly young age.
Hi Geoff, Thank you for being honest, I appreciate it. Kind regards By putting this out there, I am setting myself up to be judged, I expect it and I accept it. It's a problem for me because i go for straighter guys and the manly ones are my fave aha. I hope you can find a way to make this work because it shows clearly that your wife is very important to you.